Special Child

You weren't like other children,
And God was well aware,
You'd need a caring family,
With love enough to share.
And so He sent you to us,
And much to our surprise,
You haven't been a challenge,
But a blessing in disguise.
You winning smiles and laughter,
The pleasures you impart,
Far outweigh your special needs,
And melt the coldest heart.
We're proud that we've been chosen,
To help you learn and grow,
The joy that you have brought us,
Is more than you can know.
A precious gift from Heaven,
A treasure from above,
A child who's taught us many things,
But most of all - "Real Love"

The Special Mother

Most women become mothers by accident, ?some by choice,
a few by social pressure and a couple by habit.
This year nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children.
Did you ever wonder how these mothers are chosen?
Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation.
As he observes, he instructs his angels to take notes in a giant ledger. "Armstrong, Beth, son. ?Patron Saint, Matthew."
"Forrest, Marjorie, daughter. ?Patron Saint, Celia."
"Rutledge, Carrie, twins. ?Patron Saint...give her Gerard.
He's used to profanity."
Finally he passes a name to an angel and smiles.
"Give her a handicapped child."
The angel is curious. ?"Why this one, God? ?She's so happy."
"Exactly," smiles God. "Could I give a handicapped child a mother who knows no laughter? ?That would be cruel."
"But does she have the patience?" ?asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience,
or she'll drown in a sea of self-pity and despair.
Once the shock and resentment wear off she'll handle it."
"I watched her today. ?She has that sense of self and independence
so rare and so necessary in a mother.
You see, the child I'm going to give her has a world of it's own.
She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy."
"But Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. ?"No matter, I can fix that.
This one is perfect. ?She has just enough selfishness."
The angel gasps, "Selfishness? ?Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't seperate herself from the child occassionally,
she will never survive.
Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect.
She doesn't know it yet, but she is to be envied.
She will never take for granted a spoken word.
She will never consider a step ordinary.
When her child says momma for the first time, she will be witness to a miracle and know it.
I will permit her to see clearly the things I see--ignorance, cruelty,
prejudice--and allow her to rise above them.
She will never be alone.
I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life
because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
"And what about her Patron Saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in the air.
God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."
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by Erma Bombeck

My ADHD Child

He's bouncin' off walls, a superball gone insane He runs through your world like an off-rail freight train. Interruptions are constant, tantrums galore, When it's time to do homework, he's gone out the door. The drama is constant, oh his foot fell asleep, He moans and he wails, the theatrics run deep. School is a nightmare the teachers are lost, If they only could see, he is worth the cost. He is brighter than most, as most these kids are, And with patience and love, I know he'll go far. But the crap I must take from "well meaning friends" "Don't let him do that." "Oh these rules that he bends." "You're not a good parent." "Your child's really rude." "His temper's outrageous." "He has hands in his food." He hears this and wonders, just what's wrong with me? I tell him "You're special, you have ADHD." "Now ADHD is a gift from above." "It teaches us grown-ups how to strenghten our love." "It helps teach your teachers, no two kids are the same." "You have awsome energy that could bring you great fame." "You don't need much sleep, you never wear down." "You're silly and funny, when you act like a clown." "You've felt lots of pain from what people have said, But you pray for those people when you go to bed." "So you try every day to make a fresh start." "For God gifted you with an extra big heart." As I look at my child, he sees through my soul, My heart feels like bursting, as I realize my goal. I know this young boy like no one else could, He's a blessing to me, he's strong and he's good. So I'll love him and guide him through the worst of the worst, And he'll make a great man (if I don't kill him first) I'm kidding of course 'cause I know what's to be, When I look in his eyes, I see a reflection of me. by Tracy Nicolaus

Famous people who have or exbite Adhd, Odd, Add and l/D

Just to show you, that no matter what disabilities you have, you can succeed in life !!!

You can get this information at: "oneaddplace.com "

This page has been one of the most popular on One ADD Place. We get many questions asking how various names got on the list. Although, not all these famous people have been "officially diagnosed," they have exhibited many of the signs of ADD, AD/HD & LD. The point of this list is to inspire those of us who have similar challenges. We thank the Kitty Petty ADD/LD Institute for this valuable contribution to One ADD Place.

Albert Einstein Galileo Mozart Wright Brothers Leonardo da Vinci Cher Bruce Jenner Tom Cruise Charles Schwab Henry Winkler Danny Glover Walt Disney John Lennon Greg Louganis Winston Churchill Henry Ford Stephen Hawkings Jules Verne Alexander Graham Bell Woodrow Wilson Hans Christian Anderson Nelson Rockefeller

Thomas Edison Gen. George Patton Agatha Christie John F. Kennedy Whoopi Goldberg Rodin Thomas Thoreau David H. Murdock Dustin Hoffman Pete Rose Russell White Jason Kidd Russell Varian Robin Williams Louis Pasteur Werner von Braun Dwight D. Eisenhower Robert Kennedy Luci Baines Johnson Nugent George Bush's children Prince Charles

Gen. Westmoreland Eddie Rickenbacker Gregory Boyington Harry Belafonte F. Scott Fitzgerald Mariel Hemingway Steve McQueen George C. Scott Tom Smothers Suzanne Somers Lindsay Wagner George Bernard Shaw Beethoven Carl Lewis Jackie Stewart "Magic" Johnson Weyerhauser family Wrigley John Corcoran Sylvester Stallone

This is so True !! :)

This should probably be taped
to your bathroom mirror
where one could read it every day.
You may not realize it,
but it's 100% true.

1. There are at least two people in this world
that you would die for.

2.. At least 15 people in this world
love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you
is because they want to
be just like you.

4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone,
even if they don't
like you.

5. Every night,
SOMEONE thinks about you
before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.

7. You are special and unique.

8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever,
something good comes from it.

10. When you think the world
has turned its back on you
take another look.

11. Always remember the compliments you received.
Forget about the rude remarks.

So...........
If you are a loving friend,
send this to everyone,
including the one that sent it to you.
If you get it back, then they really do love you.

And always remember....
when life hands you Lemons,
ask for Tequila and Salt and call me over!

Good friends are like stars........
You don't always see them,
But you know they are always there.

"Whenever God Closes One Door He Always Opens Another, Even Though
Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway"

I would rather have one rose and a kind word
from a friend while I'm here
than a whole truck load when I'm gone.


Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only
God keeps You Going

ADHD Child's Bill of Rights

ADHD Child’s Bill Of Rights

“Help me to focus”
“Please teach me through my sense of “touch”.
I need “hands on” and “body movement”.
“I need to know what comes next”
Please give me a structured environment where there is a dependable routine.
Give me an advanced warning if there will be changes.
“Wait for me, I’m still thinking”
Please allow me to go at my own pace.
If I rush, I get confused and upset.
“I’m stuck ! I cant do it !”
Please offer me options for problem-solving.
I need to know the detours when the road is blocked.
“Is it right? I need to know NOW!”
Please give me rich and immediate feedback on how I’m doing.
“I didn’t forget, I didn’t ‘hear’ it in the first place!”
Please give me directions one step at a time and ask me to
say back what I think you said.
“I didn’t know I Wasn’t in my seat!”
“Please remind me to STOP, THINK and ACT.”
Am I almost done now?
Please give me short work periods with short-term goals.
“What?”
Please don’t say “I’ve already told you that”.
Tell me again in different words.
Give me a signal. Draw me a symbol.
“I know, it’s ALL wrong, isn’t it?”
Please give me praise for partial success.
Reward me for self-improvement, not just for perfection.
“But why do I always get yelled at?”
Please catch me doing something right and praise me for my specific positive behaviour.
Remind me (and yourself) about my good points, when I’m having a bad day.
“I may be hard to live with, and have ADHD, but I still have
feelings and would have never chosen to behave like I do
sometimes”.

Children with adhd and odd and other special needs

My son, who is 7 yrs old, has Adhd and Odd and it's been an experience for my son that it just breaks our heart, to see the struggles that he goes through everyday of his life.... With a lot of love, hugs, understanding and getting him services, I starting to see some changes...

It's not going to be easy because each new day is something new with him but I make sure that he understand, that there are consequences in life, and if you do things that are not acceptable behavior then you will have to accept the consequences that you will have to deal with at school and at home...

Medication, well, that's another story because you have to keep trying different medication, until you find the one that works and that takes a lot of time....It's really annoying, that you have to have your child on medication, to help him focus and to help him with his behavior..

I've also created a website called, Children with adhd and odd and other special needs because I wanted other families to come and join me and express how they are coping with there children...

This site is dedicated to my son, Scottie and other families with children of special needs...And I can tell you that it has been a success.......Website: http://angie1001.tripod.com To new beginings!!

How are you coping with your child adhd or odd??? How is your child coping with medication??? How is your child or children behavior in school??? You are not alone, let’s united as one and help each other and help our children...This is the place, where you can talk and express your concerns...

God bless,
Angie